When travelling in India, the funniest thing that I saw was a young twenty-something European woman who was wearing an "authentic" salwar-kameez (a 2-piece suit consisting of a long tunic top, and big puffy pants), but who decided that instead of wearing both pieces, she would only wear the top - as a dress! Now, while indeed this tunic top was long enough to be worn as a dress, the reality was that she basically looked half-naked because she was only wearing half of her outfit! The fanciful saffron sash thrown around her head, the big trendy sunglasses, the "henna tattos", the noisy ankle bracelet, and the fake bindi on her head all looked fairly humorous in light of the fact that she was basically caught with her pants down!
While most travellers do their research a bit more thoroughly than this woman and understand that the pants are an integral part of this outfit, it is sadly common to see young westerners in India fashion some bizarre interpretation of Indian garb, and don it proudly in the streets of major cities. Common examples include wearing a salwar-kameez without a dupatta (a sash traditionally worn with a salwar-kameez)thus again looking half-naked and immodest, the wearing of a dupatta with jeans, or the wearing of some hippy version of "indian pants" which are sold widely in places like Goa. The fact that most Indians who live in cities who are twenty-something dress in jeans and a top, and would not walk the streets in the old-fashioned salwar-kameez that their mothers wore seems irrelevant to these travellers. The point is to look "authentic" at all costs.
Along with the look of course, has to go the absolute "fascination" with Indian culture. Spending hours at various Hindu temples watching people pray is a necessity for such travellers. Making a "pilgrimage" to Varanasi to watch in "amazement" how people bathe in the Ganges for spiritual cleansing, and participating in a puja at the ghaats are all a must-do. All members of this subsect of travellers marvel at the "spirituality" of the experience, commit themseles to learning more about Hinduism, and confirm in their minds that "exotic" ancient wisdom is the best sort of knowledge that there is. But none - not one - bathes in the Ganges themselves. Not one actually takes that plunge to experience this "fascinating" scene from the inside. Not one actually believes in what they're seeing enough to take that leap of faith and step into that "dirty-looking" water for a cleansing.
The thing about this sort of masquerade, is that it tends toward the romanticization of an entire population, with very little depth of understanding. It tends toward people proclaiming an understanding and belief in something, and using very superficial symbols of that belief to propogate an image of "inclusiveness". There is something palpably inauthentic about it.
Imagine for example that the tables were turned. Imagine that Catholicism was the "exotic" religion, and that people who "got the spirituality" of Catholicism were considered "cool". Imagine hundreds of Hindus flying in from India and flocking to Catholic churches to "experience" mass. Imagine some Indian women wore the dress of nuns, men wore the dress of priests, and others yet don the more "authentic" garb of the 16th century chasity belt. All the time, completely oblivious to the fact that other worshippers are dressed in normal pants and skirts. They are "fascinated" when the priest walks in with the cross. They find the smell of the incence "exotic and sensuous". They read all sorts of books on the interpretation of the Bible - but never the Bible itself. They spend days living in monastaries, proclaiming the wisdom gained from such a simple and chaste life. But when it comes to fasting for Lent, they all leave. They do not believe in that part of Catholicism. That part takes too much hard work, and involves too drastic a leap of faith.
So, if you find yourself travelling to India (or any other "exotic" place) in the near future, and you want to be the "coolest" kid at any backpackers hostel, follow this guide:
1) Worship the "sexy" elements of the culture and religion and leave behind the stuff that takes real work and faith
2) Adulterate the cultural symbols to fit some preconceived romanticized vision of what the "authentic culture" is or was
3) Ignore those westernized Indian youth you see on the street - they don't understand the value of their culture and traditions the way that you do
4) Never, ever admit to your own hypocrisy
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